The Bitter To Sexy

Midlife Woman

The Bitter To Sexy

Midlife Woman

SPECIALIST EXPRESS TRANSFORMATION SERVICE

For brave, female, enlightenment seekers in midlife, who still struggle to let go of stuck hurt, anger and resentment towards themselves or others, despite all the self-help they’ve done.

I help you to transform from feeling Bitter To Sexy FOR GOOD,
so that you can:

*STOP REACTING,
*START ATTRACTING,
And
*CONNECT DRAMA-FREE

Feel sexy, live fully, and create an emotional and sexually intimate marriage
WITHOUT needing more emotional 'processing'
And EVEN IF other people never change.

IMAGINE...

EMBODYING YOUR SEXY SELF!

Now THAT is attractive! 

And it’s who you TRULY ARE!

Welcome Beautiful

I see you there.

Although you’re smart, self-aware, and excellent at your work, you often find yourself struggling to connect intimately in relationships.

You sense that you often have a ‘wall up’ and hate that you still get triggered in intimate relationships despite all the work you’ve already done on yourself.

It’s exhausting to pretend to more confident and happier than you really are, and life and relationships often feel hollow.

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Maybe you’re wrestling with a decision to leave an unhappy long-term marriage; or you’re wondering why your dating relationships keep failing; or you’re hoping you don’t push a new partner away?

Whatever the case is, you know you’re likely still holding on to shit from your past OR wondering why issues that you’ve already worked on keep coming up and sabotaging relationships now?

You’re OVER IT and have finally given up trying to change anyone else (no matter how tempting it is to play the victim and continue to blame others for the way you feel).   

Although you’re confused about HOW to fix your triggers, reactivity and defensiveness you’re ready to DO whatever it takes to take back control, heal your relationships, and create an exciting next chapter of your life.

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What’s needed now is to SEE, OWN and HEAL any trace of bitterness you might still be holding on to, even if right now you may not be aware of it.

Bitterness is a very low vibration energy that repels people, keeps your heart closed and blocks connection.

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Don’t worry honey.

You’ve landed in the right place!

I’ve so got you!

Despite being an experienced, highly educated, helping professional I was a bitter wife and mother for decades and wrecked my health and poisoned my relationships with my husband and kids.

When I couldn’t stand MYSELF anymore I firmly resolved to heal at the deepest level and today I’m calm, grounded, present, open-hearted and a sexy wife and woman (if I say so myself LOL).

Life and relationships are easy for me now.

I want that for you too!

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I can guide you to become the NEXT LEVEL version of yourself NOW with effortless ease and grace.  

It’s simply time to stop distracting yourself from ‘going there’; drop your ‘strong and independent’ mask; make space for deep transformation; and reach out and invest in expert help.

Change can be easier and faster than you think!

You’ve got nothing to lose but your bitter attitude.

You DESERVE to be happy and your loved ones deserve it too.

About Me

HOW I CAN HELP

HOW I CAN HELP

I’m Natalie ‘Nat’ Murray, an Advanced Female Empowerment Specialist.

Successfully restoring my calm and wholeness after a traumatic and dysfunctional past, I am proud to have:

*Transformed myself from Bitter to Sexy

*Turned my struggling marriage around to serenity

*Stopped all numbing out and co-dependent patterns

*Released 50 pounds,

And

*Naturally become visible as a Divine Feminine Leader. 

I am passionate about helping females to get off the ‘Self-Help Merry-Go-Round’ and heal themselves and their relationships FOR GOOD NOW.

HOW I HELP

I am an expert in creating lasting change for you that others have not been able to help you with yet.

**I masterfully facilitate a rare, cutting-edge, FEMALE-SPECIFIC inner self-transformation process that resolves your bitterness FOR GOOD WITHOUT:

*Retelling your story.

*Revisiting or seeking out more trauma.

*Messy emotional processing.

OR

*Even needing to know what your ‘issues’ are or why you have them

**I provide rapid, profound, lasting results 100% of the time for 100% of my clients.  Those results can also be GUARANTEED (subject to meeting eligibility criteria).  

***I am a real, embodied female who has freed myself completely from my own ‘dark side’ and now live fully in the light.

My purpose is to show the way to freedom for other like-minded females who know that they too are destined to ‘BREAK THE CYCLE’ of female suppression their family line.

Entry to my programs is by Assessment And Invitation.

WHAT TRANSFORMED WOMEN SAY

I’m proud to have helped myself and many scores of women to restore peace within so that they can confidently:

*Create more closeness in struggling or estranged relationships,

*Attract and keep healthy new relationships (intimate and friends)

*Or, end relationships with dignity and grace, not disrespect and blame.

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APHRODITE

Psychologist, Wife, Mother, In Her 40's

“I was so sick of losing my shit and yelling at my young daughters and criticizing my husband.  I was afraid I would create permanent damage to my relationship with them all and I hated myself for my behaviour.  I had already done TONS of work on myself but just couldn’t stop reacting and making a big drama out of everything.  Nat helped me to quickly deal with real issues (without talking about my problems anymore) and become the calm, confident wife and Mum I’d always wanted to be.

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SHARON

Wife, Mother, Business Woman, In her 50's

I had been doing SO much work on myself but it was all the WRONG work!!  Nat showed me that my stuck blame and anger from my childhood, that I had not been prepared to completely let go of yet, was BLOCKING me from success in my business, life, relationships and health.  She guided me to get out of my own way and just LET IT GO and now I am grounded, calm and present for the first time ever.  It feels so freeing!

Tash

TASH

OSTEOPATH, Business Woman, Wife, Mother, In Her 40's

I really thought I had my shit together as a woman but really struggled with the dynamics of being a second wife in a blended family.   I was way too hard on myself and everyone around me.  I was pregnant with my third child (a girl) and didn’t want to pass my angry ‘baggage’ on to her so, with Nat’s guidance, I chose to ‘let it go’.  My heart burst open and I had an incredible birth experience, which was very different to my other labours.

ALREADY TRIED TO HEAL YOUR BITTERNESS?

I know you’ve been working on yourself for ages, and have come a long way, but you might be stuck in a pattern of:

*COPING with ‘issues’ you are aware of by avoiding triggers (thereby inadvertently still blaming others for the way you feel).

OR

*SOOTHING your ‘issues’ by distracting yourself with numbing-out bad habits.

OR

*MANAGING your ‘issues’ by trying to regulate your nervous system with the current tools in your toolkit, such as positive affirmations, tapping, journaling or meditation, but your negative head chatter never really shuts up for good

OR

*SEARCHING through your childhood, ancestral line, or past lives looking for the ‘root cause’ for your ‘issues’ with therapies like coaching, EMDR, somatic therapy, or kinesiology, but you just ‘know’ there’s something deeper holding you back from freely being you. 

AND

You might have unconsciously bought into BS ‘This Is As Good As It Gets’ self-help myths like:

*Some events are so traumatic that you will never really get over them

*It’s normal to be repeatedly triggered, the best you can hope for is to be more self-aware and manage and cope

*Healing is ALWAYS HARD and messy and takes a lifetime

*Some emotions, like toxic shame, are normal to carry all your life

*It’s normal for women to feel anxious and not good enough, it’s just part of being a woman

WHAT YOU'VE BEEN MISSING

What I know for sure is that the REAL source of your bitterness is your unhealed heart and nervous system.

You see, just by virtue of being born a female on this planet, you have likely inherited the DNA coding that tells you that, as a female, you’re NOT SAFE, so your nervous system’s Fight/Flight/Flee/Fawn primal, automatic reactions are stuck in DEFEND mode to protect your heart from being hurt (or ever being hurt AGAIN!).

Your bitterness is actually not the PROBLEM.  It’s your clever brain’s solution to KEEP YOU SAFE but unfortunately it’s also keeping you STUCK.

What’s needed is a way HEAL YOUR HEART AND NERVOUS SYSTEM FOR GOOD and that’s what I can help you with now.

WHAT YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT

First up, I want you to know there is nothing wrong with you.

You’re not behind in your journey. You haven’t missed anything or wasted time and money seeking other solutions. 

And, everything you’ve ever done has led you to this moment.

It’s simply time for THE NEXT LEVEL OF YOUR EVOLUTION.

ARE YOU READY?

Up until now, you simply HAVE NOT KNOWN what to do or HOW to do it.

But, thanks to an innovative advancement in self-help tools for females you truly CAN HEAL YOUR HEART AND NERVOUS SYSTEM and feel safe, drop your defences, open your heart, and respond instead of react so you can connect intimately in relationships.

This revolutionary female-specific tool has been designed by a FEMALE for FEMALES.  

Called ‘Creatrix ® 2.0 The Next Generation’, it has been available since July 2023, thanks to the visionary work of the UN-INSTITUTE OF WOMEN in Australia, which I am a part of.

We are on a collective mission to set 10 Million Women’s Heart Free from inner suffering.  Thousands of everyday women around the world have already easily and effortlessly set their hearts free from bitterness and you can too! 

READY TO EVOLVE?

FOLLOW THESE STEPS TO SEXY

TWO - RESOLVE TO EVOLVE
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THREE - SURRENDER TO GUIDANCE
APPLY For A 40 Minute 'First Date' Zoom Meeting for the 'One Time Only' nominal price of $99 AUD or $99 USD (depending on where you live).

If, after reviewing your online Application Form, I determine if I might be able to help you, then I will email you a link to book a 'First Date' with me.
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Attend 'First Date' Meeting (By Invitation)
Let's meet on Zoom to assess where you are at, want change you want, and if we are a match. To ensure your successful transformation it's vital we have a heart-to-heart connection and BOTH feel we are meant to do this sacred work together.

If I feel it's a YES, I may invite you to a deeper assessment process with me.
3
Complete Deep-Dive Assessment (By Invitation)
Here I will identify your current core trigger and sabotaging patterns, and assess your suitability to participate in my signature program SOFTEN - Dissolve Your Bitterness Now (Your Essential Female Inner Reset Using Creatrix®).

If you are not yet ready for this deepest work I will recommend other resources to help you become suitable.

75 Minutes / On Zoom / $399 AUD for Australian or NZ clients or $399 USD for other countries
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FOUR - DISSOLVE YOUR BITTERNESS NOW
"SOFTEN: Dissolve Your Bitterness Now" (Your Essential Female Inner Reset Using Creatrix ®)

Core 1:1 Express Transformation Program - 12 Weeks Online (By Invitation)

INVESTMENT is individualised and determined after your Assessment is complete.
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FIVE - REIGNITE LIFE AND RELATIONSHIPS
OPTIONAL AS NEEDED - Intimate Online Group Programs To Advance Your Relationship Skills

Complete supporting courses to learn how to embody your natural power and show up authentically so you can attract the right attention; create intimate connections; and connect drama-free

1) HONOR - How To Become A Boundary Queen

2) CONNECT - How To Cultivate Intimacy (A Gene Keys Approach)

GO TO 'START HERE'/COMPLETE RELATIONSHIP SKILLS PROGRAMS' TAB AT THE TOP OF THIS PAGE TO FIND THE LINKS TO THESE COURSES
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SIX - BE TRANSFORMED
WITH YOUR EMBODIED EXPERIENCE FINALISED YOU ARE

- SEXY instead of bitter
- CALM instead of angry
- WHOLE instead of empty

- CONFIDENT instead of insecure
- GROUNDED instead of scattered
- PRESENT instead of worried

- VULNERABLE instead of defended
- RELAXED instead of rigid
- STRONG instead of tough

- FEELING instead of numbing
- REAL instead of fake
- GRACIOUS instead of mean

- ALLOWING instead of forcing
- EXPRESSING instead of suppressing
- BEING love instead of seeking love

- OWNING instead of blaming
- RESPONDING instead of reacting
- RESOLVING instead of avoiding

- CONNECTING instead of controlling
- CHOOSING instead of pleasing
- RECEIVING instead of only giving
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READY TO EVOLVE?

Honey, if you feel like something’s missing in your life, it’s probably the SEXY YOU underneath your bitterness.

What you withhold from the world, the world withholds from you.

Be Brave. Let Go. Open Up.

Nat x

TRUST THE PROCESS

MY PROMISE...

Honey, if you commit and do the work, you will be:

*Shocked and amazed at how easily you create MIRACLES in relationships

*Save yourself invaluable time, money and suffering

AND 

*Truly ‘walk your talk’ as an embodied loving role model.

TRUST THE PROCESS

MY PROMISE...

Honey, if you commit and do the work, you will be:

*Shocked and amazed at how easily you create MIRACLES in relationships!

*Save yourself invaluable time, money and suffering

AND

*Truly ‘Walk Your Talk’ as an embodied loving role model.

WHAT TRANSFORMED WOMEN SAY

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KAYLEIGH

CEO

“Despite being a high-achiever, I constantly felt anxious, discontent, angry and frustrated, was controlling in relationships, felt increasingly isolated from my family, and was stuck in a career I didn’t love anymore but was afraid to leave.

Nat’s breakthrough experience helped me to gain inner freedom and the confidence to speak in a way that respected my needs and the needs of others. My previously strained relationship with my mother healed, and I took a big leap and started my own business.

I trust myself more than ever, am embodying my higher purpose, and am open to life because I’m no longer wasting time or energy on the past or indulging in negative emotions for no good reason.

What surprised me most about working with Nat was the speed and depth of my transformation and I would recommend her journey to any woman who wants to make a big change quickly yet gently.”

Sara Welk

SARA

Wife, Business Owner

“I believe when the student is ready the teacher appears and I’m so glad Nat showed up in my life!

I was a zombie-like person just going through the motions of life and was continually triggered and reactive. I was carrying baggage and felt like I was wrapped up tight in a wire ball and anger would come up and explode at all the wrong times.

Nat helped me let go of so much baggage so fast and to deeply evolve into the empowered, authentic woman I always knew I can be. Now all my relationships have deepened, and I’m proud to know my insides match my outsides instead of wearing a mask!

All Nat’s programs fit together like a hand in a glove and her leadership, support and guidance has taken me more deeply within myself then I could by myself. I’m softer yet stronger and my heart is open to both give and receive and that is the greatest blessing and gift I can share with others!”

Wendy

WENDY

Free Spirit

“My soul was dying, and I knew in my heart I needed to make a big change in an important relationship but didn’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings. I was angry and disconnected from myself and others and didn’t know how to transform myself and my life.

I am forever grateful a friend referred me to Nat as she rapidly helped me let go of so much baggage holding me back and to find the courage to follow my heart. Now I’m living my truth, know I am lovable for just being me, and trust that I’ll be OK no matter what life throws at me.

I encourage any woman who chooses to be their beautiful, powerful, unique self to call Nat. She challenges you in a direct, yet nurturing way to be real, and she leads by example. Rapid, lasting transformations is what she promises, and she knows exactly how to help you do that.”

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